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-The coach assists the client in creating a
strong team of professionals.
A Divorce Coach enhances the client’s
organizational skills.
-Coaches tailor a forward-looking, goal-
oriented, step-by-step process for clients
which is based on bridging the gap
between where they are and where they
want to be
-Coaches guide individuals as they sort
through and organize their thoughts and
documents needed by attorneys and
accountants
-Coaches help clients clarify what is
important in divorce and assist them in
understanding and avoiding the common
pitfalls such as short sightedness, letting
emotions take control, seeing only one
piece, lacking compromise, desire for
revenge, overusing a divorce lawyer,
allowing family and friends to have too
much control, and forgetting about the
children’s best interest
-Coachesencourageclientstodeneand
redenetheirpersonalgoalstodevisea
strategytoempowerthemandfullltheir
desires post-divorce; and
-Coaches often attend professional
meetings with their clients to assist in
moving things along in a productive and
healthy manner.
A Divorce Coach provides emotional
support.
-Coaches prepare clients mentally for
the waves of emotion that might be
experienced
-Coaches assist in building up their client’s
resiliency to dealing with unexpected
issues
-Coaches help clients develop a sense of
control during a challenging time when
many feel their lives are coming apart at the
seams
-Coaches create a safe, calm, and
groundingplaceforclientsduringadicult
time
-Coaches help to build and strengthen their
client’s skills to cope with their emotions
andminimizeconict
-Coaches encourage clients to break free
from their feelings of victimhood and to
show up as their best selves
-Coaches help to structure self-care plans
for their clients so they are energized to
move forward and take action; and
-Coaches assist clients in developing a
plan on how to tell the children about the
upcoming family changes.
A Divorce Coach improves communication
skills:
-Clients learn to make and express more
informed and less emotional decisions
-Coaches help to create credible and
ecientclientswhoaremoreeective
communicators so they can be heard and
be a full participant in their divorce process
-Coaches help clients negotiate for their
future by implementing conscious thought
and intentional decision-making; and
-Coaches assist in lowering the cost of
attorney fees because the client has moved
beyond the story and is prepared for the
business of divorce.
Divorce coaches prepare clients, one step
at a time, to turn the emotional side of divorce
into the business of divorce. It is a time when
many clients experience a gap between where
they are and where they want to be. With the
guidance of a divorce coach, clients work
Why Hire A Divorce Coach?
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