But uppermost in our minds is the final destination.
On a certain day at a certain hour we will pull into
“the station.” Bands will be playing and flags will be
waving. Once we get there many wonderful things will
come true and the pieces of our lives will fit together
like a completed jigsaw puzzle. How restlessly we pace
the aisles, cursing the minutes for loitering—waiting,
waiting, waiting for the station.
“When we reach the station, that will be it!” we cry.
“When I’m 18!” “When I can buy a new Mercedes!”
“When I’ve put my last kid through college!” “When
I’ve paid off the mortgage!” “When I reach the age of
retirement, I shall live happily ever after!”
Sooner or later we must realize there is no station,
no specific place to arrive at once and for all. The true
joy of life is the trip. The station is only a dream. It con-
stantly outdistances us.
“Relish the moment!” is a good motto, especially
when coupled with Psalm 118:24: “This is the day
which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad
in it.” It isn’t the burdens of today that drive men mad.
It is the regrets over yesterday and the fear of tomorrow.
Regret and fear are twin thieves who rob us of today.
So, stop pacing the aisles and counting the miles.
Instead, climb the mountains, eat more ice cream, go
barefoot more often, swim more rivers, watch more
sunsets, laugh more, cry less. Life must be lived as long
as we go along. The station comes soon enough.
Being clean
(Have three handkerchiefs—one crumpled and soiled,
one clean but not ironed, and one clean and ironed.)
Being clean and unspoiled seems like a simple
thing, doesn’t it? But it’s really one of the toughest
assignments in our Scout Law.
Think of what a soiled handkerchief goes through in
order to be clean. (Hold up the soiled handkerchief.) It
gets scalded in hot water. It gets soaked in harsh soap
suds and strong bleach. It gets scrubbed or tumbled
around roughly in a washing machine. Then it gets
thrown around in a hot clothes dryer until it’s dry. And
then, the worst torture of all, it gets flattened out under
a heavy, hot iron. But then when all that’s done, the
handkerchief looks like this, clean and unspotted.
(Hold up the clean, ironed handkerchief.)
We must be willing to go through something like that
if we are to be clean and unspotted. Turning your back
on everything dirty is not as simple as it sounds. It
often means making yourself unpopular with some peo-
ple. Not going along with the crowd can be mighty
rough. Or, if you have done wrong, it’s extremely pain-
ful to admit what you’ve done and try to make it right
again, to ask forgiveness. But these are the trials that
purify. You see, the tough treatment in the laundry of
life can help you to be clean—if you can take it.
How about it? Will you settle for being unsoiled, like
this? (Hold up the clean, but unironed, handkerchief.)
Or would you like being clean, orderly, and unspotted,
like this? (Hold up the clean, ironed handkerchief
again.) A Scout is clean.
a QuieT hero
Barry Bonds probably hit another home run last night.
Now, I know I’m going to ruffle a few feathers when
I say this, but, Big deal! Another run. Yawn, hooray,
ho-hum. It will be in the papers and discussed on sports
talk shows, I’m sure. The guy is a real hero, right?
A couple of years ago at summer camp, I met
another hero. He was a very small 13-year-old. And he
was a very homesick Scout.
“Big deal,” I hear someone out there echoing my
comment, “a little wimp who can’t stand to leave
his mommy.”
That’s a pretty insensitive thing to say to a kid
whose feelings are tearing him up to the point of crying
in front of his friends—a kid who probably hates him-
self for being weak and feeling homesick. To make
things worse we were at the base camp for our annual
canoe trip on the rain-swollen Kippewa River in Canada
and more than one boy (and leader) was having second
thoughts. The homesick Scout came to me as we were
loading the canoes.
“Mr. Sterrett, I don’t think I want to go. I think I want
to go home,” he said. When he had made similar com-
ments the night before, the other Scouts and leaders had
joked and tried to distract him. But there comes a time
when a boy has to either go forward or back.
We walked away from the others and I put my hand
on his shoulder. “In five minutes, we’ll be leaving,” I
said, “You can be in the canoe with us or you can be in
the truck going back.” And then, oh, how hard it was to
do—I walked away and left him to his thoughts.
He came with us on the trip. A couple of his buddies
gave him a friendly punch on his shoulder, but nobody
cheered. His accomplishment wasn’t printed in the
papers or discussed on talk shows. Now, Bonds—he’s
okay. But to me, that Scout is a special kind of hero.
The quiet kind.
philmonT
I remember my first Boy Scout meeting. One of the
older Scouts gave us a slide presentation on his recent
trip to Philmont. I went home so excited. I really
wanted to go there. So I told Mom and Dad that when
I was 14 I was going to Philmont Scout Ranch in New
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